Crushes

          Crushes are weird. They pop out of nowhere, anytime, any day. Sometimes they can be very misleading and will make you confused. Why do I say that? Well, when you have a crush on someone, you would want to know who they are crushing on or who they like. It makes you wonder a lot about them and it may make you look stupid. You may even act crazy around them.That is because when you see them, most people will get butterflies in their stomachs.

          Crushes may sound stupid but if they actually realize your feelings towards them, maybe just maybe they have the same feelings towards you too. Actually that sounds like a miracle if that ever happens. If it does happen then congrats! You may now live a happy life.

          Anyone can have a crush, whether they want it or not. If they do, they need to be prepared for what's coming up. For example, your friends may tease you over them. Sometimes when your crush passes by, your friends will shout his or her name in front of you or even go up to them and point at you which most of the time you will be at that awkward position or you are sleeping soundly. These friends will do anything to embarrass you in front of them, but you still love them because they are there when you need them the most. Which brings up the next point.

          Some people may not tell their friends about their crush directly after finding out. They feel embarrass if their friends actually found out about their crush because he or she may not be up to the standards their friends are having about crushes. They feel as if their life is ruined just by letting their friends know about their crush. Some are scared that their friends will tease them about it or bully them about him or her. It sometimes makes the person feel very insecure and not have the courage to talk to their crush anymore. Even after all that thinking, they will still have to talk to someone about it because they will want to gossip about him or her.

          Going into the details now. There are many ways to know whether you are crushing on him or her or not.

• You may feel self-conscious around them.
• When your friends are talking to them, you would be the one not talking.
• You get butterflies in your stomach when you see them.
• You act stupid around them.
• When you do talk to him or her, your words will most probably jumble up together.
• You think about them constantly.

          There are many more ways to find out but you just have to get to know them well before you start panicking. Don't worry, there are always friends by your side that will support you along the way. Whether you caused a chaos or you burned down the school or anything, they will always be there for you no matter what.